Questions not to ask

Being in the current age sucks.. Why? Everywhere u go ppl ask u the same thing.. Got bf a not? When get married? When hav children.. Blah blah blah.. Seriously, if we wan to get married, we will.. U will get invitation.. Unless u are not close enough.. Then I get married or not also don matter to u.. Don need to ask.. Not married of course cannot hav kids la.. Need to faster.. Faster what? Faster head la.. Marry can fast de meh? Hav kids can fast de meh.. I prefer having kids when I am mature enough to educate them.. Not anyhow hav kids just because u lik kids or just because of ur horny moments..

Another thing is asking of houses.. Say don know how many times liao.. People still ask.. When u get hbd? Location at where ar? If u cnt rmb, means u are not int.. If u are not int, then why the hell keep asking me the same questions over and over again.. Tell u 2018 liao.. Few months later ask again.. When u get ur hdb ar? Haven get yet ar? Hello.. Now is 2015 only leh.. 3 months later still 2015 u know.. Not like 3 months later, it will jump to 2018..

At this age, other than all these questions no other questions already meh? If u wan ask not cnt.. Just ask once.. Once enough liao.. If ppl say haven married yet, not yet.. Then maybe u should keep ur mouth shut instead of asking questions lik.. Why haven? When going to get married? Hello.. Is I marry or u marry? My mum also nv ask.. Marriage need planning de ok.. Not happy happy one day tell u I go rom liao.. 3 months later invite u to wedding de ok.. U ask so much for wat.. Ask liao I also don know right? The guy also haven propose what u wan me to do? Hdb get liao means within these few years lol..

Fed up with ppl asking these questions that I sometimes just cnt be bothered to reply.. Maybe I should just ask them back sarcastically how u get married last time? When u decide to get marry? The guy propose to u right? Ah then, u ask me for wat? Or when u shot gun got kids right.. U can see my stomach is flat.. Not going to xian shang che hou mai piao.. Ur pushing and pressurizing to us does not get the work done u know.. Nv heard the sentence mian qiang mei you xin fu meh.. My marriage is my marriage.. Now become lik become everybody's business lik tat.. Don tell me stuff lik u need to prepare money.. Wedding dinner cost u how much? At most $200.. Is not like I will suddenly invite u 1 month later eh can attend my wedding dinner.. Confirm will hav enough time de wat.. Wedding dinner leh.. Not 1 month baby shower leh..

Proposal

Saw one post regarding worst marriage proposal with a caution note.. Its say to check with ur partner if she /he lik a public proposal.. The answer will be no for me.. Marriage proposal has to be private.. Romantic.. Not show off to everyone that u are getting marry.. Not mentioning the awkwardness and I think it will be embarrassing to me.. Simple, sweet, surprising proposal is enough already as long as ur partner is the one who make effort to think and plan how to make it works.. Is enough already.. Well, enough for me..

Proposing on birthday or valentine day.. Why not must as well propose on ur anniversary day.. More meaningful than birthday or valentine day.. The day u go steady with ur partner.. The day ur partner said yes on ur first 'propose'.. Best propose and rom on the same day.. Wedding dinner put one year later on the same day.. Haha less dates to remember.. Don hav to be question /test yearly by ur partner which day propose, which day rom, and celebrate all diff days tat just represent 'you are married'..

Photography is a must to me on the proposal.. More important than having a photographer on ur wedding day.. Take down the surprise moment.. The big change of ur life.. 10, 20 years down the road, u can still reminisce that day.. Or show it to ur kids.. Obviously the photographer must be privately hidden, can ask a friend to help if u are on budget and do not want to hire one.. Or u just take that moment urself.. Plan it in ur proposal.. Adjust ur camera hidden at right angle.. Whichever way works..

My friends ask me what is my dream proposal.. Simple.. Just a night out flying kite.. a led proposal kite.. Element of surprise.. Kneeling a must.. Words from bottom of his heart.. Diamond ring yes.. That all..