Quarreling is never inevitable in life.. Communicating your point across to a stubborn, self centered, coward person is what to me toughest thing to do when in a heated agrument.
Some people just cannot admit when they are at fault.
1st of all u forgot about our plans for today
2nd u make a promise and u broke it without an apology. Despite that, still act like not in the wrong. Quote "what is wrong with me going eat with my sister?" Response: nth is wrong when u eat with ur sister. But not when u arrange to eat with me first. U will get angry and saying how can ur friend do that when u and ur friend had a arrangement to meet up and he went to meet another friend instead. So what the difference now when u do it to even worse ur WIFE. And stop bringing up ur sisters as a shield and trying to find excuse for your mistake of not able to keep the promise. Next time i will do the same and let u hav a taste of ur own medicine.
3rd not being considerate for your partner. Despite knowing that he is unable to reach in time and does not have car still keeping it secret and not wanting to make the effort to inform the partner and not sorry for Making the partner waited for at least 2 hours for her lunch to miracally appear. Quote "i am sorry for not tabaoing for u but the stall have sold the food. I cannot predict that what." & "i didnt ask u to wait for me for lunch what". Response yea, i am stupid to be waiting to have my lunch delivered when someone said he will tabao for me. And stupid enough to expect that he will at least have the heart to let his partner know when he cannot make it or at least rush things and not let his partner starve. Should have just ate on my own and couldnt care less about him. Well at least i know my mistake. Will never wait for him for lunch even when he say he will eat lunch with me.
4th didnt have the consideration to inform his partner that his sister is borrowing the car. Only inform when reach that if we going to eat chicken rice at amk we got to take bus there after the wife has been starve for 2 hours. blame it on the partner for having a expectation that he will be driving when he has a car and drive most of the time. Doesnt stop there, still have the cheek to say since when do i need to report to you when my sister borrow the car? Wow. So since u are so selfish abt sharing such info. then u know what? pay back for the car installment and downpayment that u took from the account. Do not think about using any more money from that shared account cause is not used for ur personal assets. Just a reminder that I can do without ur stupid car. Also sell off the motorcycle and return half of my money. And not going give u any money when u are lazy to find a work. Get ur ass off ur hse and go find a job and earn money for urself. Why? Cause we are not partners if u don treat me like one. And why should i giving u when u don even bother..
5th blaming on saying he need his personal space to settle his family matters. Note to self. **Guess u not part of the family. So dont be an idiot and see when u stand in "his family."
Conclusion is just a simple thing.
Apologize for all the mistakes when I get angry and when u are in the wrong. But no.. Apologizing will take a piece of meat from him so he cannot just apologize and settle things. he has to quote a lot of nasty things and argue his way out every single time.
Oh no. Not this time. Cant argue ur way out this time. Giving in to u plenty of time and definitely again not this time.
