Many people do not realize that laziness is what stopping us from moving on. We blame each other, blame the society, blame the world. But end of the day, we forgot to self reflect and ask ourselves, did you put in your 100% in order to get the result you expected? And when you fail, what have you done wrong, what should you do right? is there any other method or options that you can turn to to improve the chances of success or for the result you wanted?
Most of the time the answer would be no. Because we are too used to being comfortable in our current state that we forgot that success takes effort and time. You need practice and continuous trying. Nobody succeed directly with just one try. As we grow older, we have experiences. With these experiences in mind, we often become overconfident and fail to see the need to change to improve and be better.
We put in little effort in hope for higher expectations. The world is always fair. You only get what you deserve. If you decide to be lazy to maintain relationship, improve to achieve results or learn something new at work. Then dont blame why the world is unfair that people are earning more than you or why your partner is leaving you.
Also failure isnt the end to your life. If you fail, you learn something useful for your next try. One method doesnt work for all. But continuous improvement will increase the chances of you succeeding. After you succeed it also doesnt mean is the end. Maintaining the success which is sustainability is what continuous hard work is about.
You can give yourself a rest and a pat on the back every now and then. But never put yourself in a overly relax and lazy mood. Never be too overconfident with yourself. Because things will change slowly, little by little, bit by bit. You will not notice it because the changes are insignificant and you were busy enjoying. You will only realize it when the bits and little adds up into a drastic change that hits you.
That when people will start blaming others than themselves. But when you look back and analyze, you will realize the problem or the decision made always comes from within you. If it is a decision made wrong, understand the mistake, accept the consequences, remember it and move on. If it is a problem, identify, analyze, resolve it, remember it and move on.
Always keep moving on. The past is only for you to understand and remember the good and bad in your life. The future is what you need to bet on with the experiences you gain and increased probability. Afraid to fail and you will never succeed. Be contented and appreciate what you have and still be ambitious to increase what you have. Never forget that whatever good u have comes from your own success too. And whatever bad comes from your own decision and problems to work on.
