Friday, March 10, 2023

Life purpose

I'm very happy that I found my purpose in life. I found what I want to do in life. Other than just earning money, getting married, having a kid and retire. 

There are people who keep trying to follow this path. But once they got money and contented then they are lost. They are also people who are never contented and forever wanted to earn more money. Keeping it as much as they can. What is the purpose of money if you don't use it to enjoy? You can't bring along when u die. You can leave it for your next generation but you can't control their future either. If they don't learn how to use it, then they will just still be wasting the money. Some people stressed cause they couldn't find a partner to marry. They lost motivation in life. They start wasting life as it pass because they don't see a purpose or goal to fulfil.

I don't deny money is important. But to me is not the most important. Money can't buy extra time of your life. Money don't extend your life. And also often said money can't buy health. Everyone born in this world has limited time. If I live till 100, I'm already at one third of my life. When I'm at half my life, would I still be able to go what I want? Go paragliding, go bungee jumping etc? One will never earn enough money. But time is different. U can't earn time. With the limited time, do I still want to continue waste it not doing things I like to do?  

I will regret if I die knowing my entire life is only about work and chasing money. There are so many beautiful things to see, so many places to explore and go to. So many lives out that to understand which I have not done. I can't change my past but I can plan my future. Even if I can change my past I also won't want to. Because is what shaped me now. I can work my future and decide what future I want and is not only about money and having a family. 

不要跟我女儿比较。你比不赢的。我女儿是我用很大的牺牲生出来的宝。牺牲换来的当然非常珍贵非常珍惜。你又不是我要用牺牲换来的哪能用来比较。

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