People who cheat and lied are really pitiful. Usually they are hurt or betrayed themselves and they can't recover from it or they don't know what is love and sincerity or insecurities. There are tons of underlying reasons to lie and it all comes from within themselves. I used to want to revenge on ppl like that. I used to feel angry at them but somehow not anymore. As long as I know the truth is good enough for me. Furthermore, I can't stop them anyway.
I really don't understand what's really in it to cheat? What do u get from cheating? What do u get from betraying someone's trust and kindness? What do u get from hurting someone?
Is it that difficult to leave and find another rather than betray and cheat and finding excuses? If u really feel insecure, unloved, then communicate with your partner. If really can't communicate then leave. What is the purpose of just holding on to go through life together without love? End of the day is to just protect your reputation. Because u don't want ppl to think bad about you.
To me is really a coward and avoiding way to resolve things. Because one is too coward to face the issue. They turn to easier ways to resolve. I won't ask a person to be honest anymore. But only ask a person to be responsible.
People often underestimate others power and overestimate their own importance. Why would you think the other party can't accept the truth? Or why would you think that you hurt them and then they can't recover? Or you want to only lie to protect yourself?
No matter what lie it is, you may have your reason to lie. But once your lie has been found out, just be brave and face the consequences. Don't find excuses because no matter what excuses, the underlying reason is still yourself. So take that accountability and responsibility to face the consequences of your lie and your decisions.
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