Story

Today one of my colleague share about her life story. Can understand how she become so strong at heart. I agree with her completely. Emotional torture are the hardest to recover from and what she went through is really unjust. But she is still very optimistic. 

All the divorce, the debt give by her ex, the abuse given etc are all lessons to be learn. Is also a contentment to me. Because there are always ppl who been through worse. She fight for herself independently. Supported herself independently. The ppl she met cause her mistrust with other ppl. Is hard to find someone sincere with the current society. So let fate decides. 

Sit around and watch show from a wider view. Experiences make you stronger each time. Makes you more independent. Being kind to a unworthy person is being cruel to yourself. So moral of story stay happy and do what you want to. Accommodating and sacrifice always comes with a price. Make sure when you decide to willingly take that risk, u can face that consequence positively. 

Dont cause emotional stress to yourself. Take negativity with a pinch of salt. Of course not immediately let go but give time to relieve and think through. She say psychology helps which I agree. It helps to understand yourself better to make a "well informed decision". Also learned that from my ex boss.