Peacefulness

Just when I am having some peacefulness in my life, some idiot acts up. Same usual tricks of complaining, guilt tripping, criticising. Trying to maintain control, boost his manly ego and avoiding responsibility since helper is not around. Nobody is available to let him show his weight around and bully. Nobody to please him. So he is in desperate need to control someone else. 

Honestly it is just a small matter but nth better to do ppl likes to take small matter and bring it up into a big commotion. What's the top of these nonsense? 

1. Mosquitoes

2. Daughter's item

3. Visitation rights (Newest showering)

Always bothering me over my daughter going home with mosquitoes bites. Honestly, i dont understand what the person is expecting me to do with it. Move to a planet without mosquitoes? Or maybe I can do some research and alter the dna of my daughter not to get bitten by mosquitoes. If I can I will do that on myself first. I hate mosquitoes. 😆

My daughter's items. I dont know what's in his brain that he consistently thinks that my daughter's items are like super valuable that needs to be protected. Somewhat delusional and coo coo that I will steal my daughter's things. From previously accusing me of stealing my daughter's gold ankle (which btw was bought by my mum to my daughter as a gift) to water bottles, clothes, swimsuit, socks, tablet etc. Asking him to pack and provide for my visitation seems like a super difficult thing. I often get question back with why? Oh. I need a swim suit so that I can bring her to play arcade and I need her water bottle so that I can swing and hit someone else with it. What a 🤡. But he really like to ask obvious questions. Doubting his IQ. Could be only at the standard of 3 yo. 

Visitation right. Joint custody. His main care and control but demanding me to have my daughter showered before I send her home during my visitation right? 😲 multiple times threatening me with my visitation rights when I dont comply with his demands. I have been nice to shower her whenever possible past 2 weeks. Definitely not my obligation to. I am nice and polite telling him Im out of my daughter's clothes. Requested him to provide a batch of clean set of clothes last week which he refuse and told me he will only provide this week. When i pick up my daughter today arrogantly told me he did not provide clothes today. Funny that he still expect that I would be able to shower her without any clean set of clothes. Possible due to years of experiences of cleaning up after all his shit. In his eyes, Im probably a doraemon. I have a toilet which is nice and clean with hot showers that I can conveniently pull out from my pocket and my daughter can be showered in whenever we are out. 

If Im a doraemon, I will probably make him an alone hidden island whereby he can use sand to build his own high rise atas castle, able to multiple himself, fight between the multiples to choose who is to be king to be able to control the rest of himself.